Friday, December 17, 2010

Commitment Plan

I've actually gotten into fights with wife for quite a few times since Thanksgiving. Thank God we were able to patch things up every time, but still these fights can still be very annoying. Personally, I thought we're fighting over little things..., what's the big deal? But then, if they're so little, why couldn't I just do something about these little things? Shouldn't be a big deal to me too, right?

So I drafted up a list of all possible things that could tick my wife off. To be honest, some of the things are not so little to me... some of the habits I've actually tried to change in the past, but I ended up continue to let it slip. All thanks to my procrastination tendencies I guess... :(

Anyway, as hard as some of the things might be, I shall still try my best to 'walk on water' and focus more on my Lord than on anything else this time! Today's 20/20 reading talked about Peter's walk on water... Hey, if Peter could do it, so can I! Even if I do fall into the water, Jesus would still come save me and I shall dry myself up and try to walk again until my little faith grows bigger! :)

Of course besides stopping habits that might hurt my wife, I'm also trying to take more initiative on planning out the good things too. Hopefully, this commitment plan will help smooth out the rocky parts out of our marriage! ;) Now, if something is still insufficient about my plan, may God give me some pointers thru the Holy Spirit so that I may modify the plan as we go along...

(20/20, $3.379, 168.8lbs)

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